Anonymous asked: hey, i'm a 18 year old, and i've been close friends with this girl for about 5 years. last year, we got really close, from friends, to best friends, and it kept getting higher on the emotional scale. for some reason, i pushed her away when things started to look as if we'd be going out. she of course was shocked, we went through a period of awkwardness, and now we're just friends. to this day, i cannot understand why i pushed her away; it was totally an instinctive, subconsciousness move. can you explain why i did what i did? and, do you think a second chance with her is possible? i see her everyday and am on friendly terms with her at the moment, but it was nothing like what we had a year ago. thank you for your help, i really appreciate it, and i love your blog.
->star-gazer
Hello star-gazer,
The first thought I had when I just read about your problem is that perhaps you’re worried, without really realising it, about letting someone into your life like that? I know it’s the kind of thing which would scare me shitless. As for second chances, I’d say you’re in with a good shot, you’re pretty close and I think you’ve got a lot to gain. Good luck!
Fuckyeahlove x
